How To Achieve Marvelous Results With Women -0115

Their are some of questions you ask yourself and you end up falling asleep with no answer. You go out drinking with your fellow man and what happens leaves your mouth gaped. Your friend goes home with about thirty contacts from women he has just met. He even manages to take a top dancer home at the end of the evening. Your friends have so much success with women it is unbelievable. If you learn some few tricks about women it might end your lonely nights and give you the much desired success with women. Look around my friend and you will realize that the power of attraction is neither logical nor fair. All your "bad boy" friends are selling like hot cakes.

Getting a girl can be very challenging in todays highly competitive dating world, even if you are a great guy. There are some things that you can do to improve your chances.

In this article, I'll give you three great tips that are all important in seducing a woman.

The first thing you can do is improve your social skills. If you are shy and too scared to talk too women you greatly reduce your chances of getting girls. That's why you should try to become a good talker. Just try to be interesting and friendly.

In order to achieve success with women, it is good to understand that women and men priorities differ while looking for a date. Men tend to concentrate on looks than the personality while women prioritize on personality. They do not mainly dwell on looks though they count to a smaller extent. The trick here is to act funny and unpredictable. Arrogant men enjoy success with women. Being nice is a threat to attraction. When you buy gifts, take her to a movie and may be compliment her beauty it becomes so monotonous. Try to be a little bit different since attractive women are being approached by men all the time. All the guys buy gifts and stuff like that so i beg for your uniqueness. When you do all these nice things you appear needy and also appear like you are hiding ulterior motives.

To get girls it is also very important to be confident and feel good about yourself. Show that you are a real man and that you are not afraid of rejection. This really impresses women who will see you as a high value man.

The first impression should give you success with women. If she did not feel attracted to you when you first met, she is not worth pursuing. You cannot simply do anything about it. Once you notice that, stop buying gifts and treating her overly well because you won't succeed. If she feels attracted to you, she can't do anything about it brother. This is the power of attraction. Tease her with hard questions and give her a hard time as long as it is necessary. This communicates your concern and confidence. It guarantees huge success with women.

By being confident, funny and interesting anyone can get girls. You will just have to practice a bit and learn to deal with rejection. While this may sound easier said than done if you are a shy guy it is not that hard. Just approach a lot of girls and talk to them. If they are not interested just move on to the next one. After a while the fear of rejection will disappear and your confidence will increase a lot.

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How One Feels Crazy In Love? - 0114

Passionate love creates many feelings. In passionate love, lovers are even ready to give away their life. Passionate love neither recognizes logic nor it follows any norms. You must have read stories that told how a poor boy fell in love with a princess and ultimately won her over. Love that reaches heights of passion is beyond any advice.

No one can communicate with such lovers because their mind is closed to any talk of separation.

What kind of love is that? How a sensible person begins behaving strangely. Can such love be compared with addictions? A person before any addiction is sensible, logical and, follows norms and acts normal. After getting addicted a drug, people rob; commit theft and what ever else they need to do to get the drug. Without the drug they cannot live.

The withdrawal symptoms are equally uncontrollable and have to be managed under medical supervision.

To try and persuade a drug addict to leave the drug is a difficult task that has to be accomplished over period of time. It is not as simple as asking - please stop using this drug, and he/she will comply. It requires real effort, persuasion and therapy to achieve that. Is love that has reached passionate heights comparable?

It looks as if the effects are same, the longing is same and the separation is equally painful.

 Being crazy in love means total dependence on the beloved. No moment goes without his/her thought and every attempt will be made to win him/her over. If for any reason, the beloved cannot be won, the consequences can be equally bad unless helped with therapy.

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How To Guarantee Online Dating Success - 0113

I met my fiancι on a dating site.  Since that time, lots of my single friends think I’m the online dating expert.  What surprises me about that is that most of these women were around for the years prior to meeting my Mr. Perfect when I met a pathological liar on Eharmony, a man I’m pretty sure was a serial killer on Match, and at least a half dozen married men.

Now looking back on my experience and watching those experiences of my friends in the online dating world, what I observe most often is a silent desperation in women that makes the whole process incredibly heavy and serious.  We are looking for Mr. Right and have a great deal of hope that every next guy is him.  If we go out on three or four dates we giggle to our friends about our new boyfriend and secretly start practicing our signature with his last name, (you know you’ve done it).  No matter how many times we get burned, hope in the online dating world springs eternal and sometimes leads to delusion.

So, here it is, my online dating strategy that finally scored me my Mr. Perfect.  I have shared this with many women that look at me crossed eyed.  But I’m here to tell you this one works if you are strong enough to stick to the program.  I call it "30 free meals".

That’s right.  When you sign up for, let's say, the cost of that membership is about $25.00 a month.  You want to recoup that investment and maybe even capitalize on it by getting your moneys worth, not in fine men, but fine food.  After two dinners out, that someone else paid for, you have more then made your money back.

Now, I can hear it all now, from both the men and women, about how wrong, stupid, bitchy, greedy, or sexist that is.  However, I’m going to stick to the principal of my plan.

The rules are simple.

#1.  When you go out on a date, first through fourth, he pays. Period.  When I was doing the online dating thing, I was big about paying, always on the first date and often even after that.  I wanted to prove my independence.  Show a man how capable I was.  What I was, was attractive to the unemployed.  I realize now that a gentleman likes to pay.  He likes to treat a lady, show off a little.  A gentleman does not expect to get laid for the price of dinner.  Now, as a relationship progresses obviously, you will pick up the tab sometimes, but in the beginning don’t even look at the bill when it hits the table.  Stare into his eyes and smile graciously.

#2.  Don’t even think about getting even remotely anxious about why you haven’t found Mr. Right until you’ve had your 30 free meals because finding your soul mate is not the name of the game here – free food is.  You do not talk to your friends or family about these men.  You certainly do not enter into any relationship, real or imaginary where you refer to any of them as boyfriend.  If you are getting free food, you are successful at the online dating game.  If you think at free meal 18 you have found someone worthy of calling  your sister about, try with all your might to refrain.  You have 12 more meals to go.  By holding tight to this strategy it prevents women from taking themselves or the process too seriously.

Now I say all of this only slightly tongue and cheek.  I am more serious then not.  Mr. Right might be on page 14 of your matches.  However, Mr. Right is going to run like hell the minute he picks up the scent of your desperation.  The only way online dating works is if it’s fun and ever so light.

So, lighten up.  You are two meals away from making money on your investment.  With this economy, that’s a good bet!

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How To Impress Women Using 6 Easy Ways - 0112

Most men have their own way on how they can attract women. It only requires some moves to impress her. There are some obvious acts in a man’s behavior that makes a man to impress a woman. Look on how a man behaves in front of woman. There are certain approaches that may be observed in some instances. Men know what they want and they do know how to hide those real motives for that girl.

The intention when a man wants to impress a woman can be associated to the feeling that he wants to look good in front of the girl he really likes. The impression that a person wants to build up on himself is always good traits on his personality.

The best behavior of a man can be seen in these situations where his bad side is set aside to establish himself as the perfect choice for that girl.

When a person is trying to impress a target woman, he tends to be the best that he can be. He may tell only “cool” things that can capture the heart of a woman. Sometimes he may act a little nervous and anxious in moments when he is with the girl. Men are good in getting the interests of the woman, especially on the things they want to hear and have.

These can be misleading sometimes. Women can get a little tricky on what they say and tell.

Others seem to back-pedal on some comments, where the girl do not believe or do not like what he said. Some changes their perspective even if they know that it is right and true. They tend to be a little careful on their statements especially when the topic is about them. It can be too risky if the person tries to make some teasing or making comments about the girl. These acts can be a little over the edge at times, because they are too obvious and many women see it like more of an old-fashioned style.

Here are some tips where a man can impress the girl of his dreams:

1. A man should ask questions about the girl. He may share his dreams and failures to get the attention of the girl. The man may realize that the girl is sharing her experiences as well. There could be some point that the girl is open to answer questions relating to the person’s own interests. This is an indication that she may fall into the person’s way of conversation.

2. A man should show some interest to the stories that the woman tells. Listening to her is very important to get her attention. This means that the man is willing to understand and sacrifice for the girl. This is good way to impress a woman. Avoid talking too much about adventures and achievements. Most women do not want themselves to sit all night listening.

3. A man should always be presentable. Most women are notorious when it comes to fashion and accessories. If a man wants to impress this woman, he must put some style and be attractive enough to get the attention of others. Know the fact that girls will treat a man like their own accessory. If a man knows how to be good-looking and how to smell good, the girl has just gotten what she wants on a man.

4. A man should always be a gentle man. He must behave well every time he is with the girl. A man should always practice chivalrous behavior. A man must be attentive on what must be the proper way to treat a woman. He should always take care of the girl and do not forget table manners when a man is dating a woman.

5. Do not forget to have eye contact with the girl. Adding a friendly smile can capture her attention. Be sure that there is no malice that will initiate a wrong impression in her part.

6. He should exhibit a strong personality by showing that there is confidence to the intentions he wants to express. Being jealous to other men can lessen the self-esteem.

A man can impress a woman by not being predictable, a man should always be true to himself and be honest to the girl he likes. It is always a plus for many women if a man they meet stand by his own principles in a very humble way. Dont forget to visit and to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...

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How Girls Can Tell He’s Interested - 10 ways - 0111

Around 85 per cent of couples who just had their first dates remarked that before they were even introduced they were already sending signs of attention and interest to each other. These are couples that did not come from first dates, rather, tried to communicate first and see if they click. It usually begins when either one of them making contact with the eyes, a hint of interest floating in the air.

The big question is: How does a girl find out if a guy is showing interest in her? Basically, that question is also answered by a set of questions. Is the guy responding when there is an attempt for conversation? Does he return back the smiles? Is he showing any flirtatious signs? Enough imagining the past girl, there are tell tale signs to look for to know if a guy has really the hots for a girl. A guy is interested in a girl if:

He gazes at the girl’s eyes longer and more intently than he would when talking to others. The trick is to make eye contact for a short time, then he looks back again and this time longer, lastly, he turns his head to the girl’s direction but not looking at her directly. From the side of his eyes, he’s actually checking if the girl is still looking back or waiting for him to gaze at her again.

He is showing more engaged actions when just trying to show or reach for something; he leans forward when he talks to girl or just when listening for her to say something. He touches the girl’s hand when stressing a point while talking.

Even imitates the girls actions and gestures while making a conversation and perhaps to lessen edginess he amuses himself with touching his earring, blending his coffee, playing with a part of his clothing, fixing the hair, etc. He makes sure he looks his best when the girl approaches

He uses flattering comments and mixes humor to everything he says just to see the girl’s smile with a beam whenever he talks to the girl, well, appreciates even the girl’s silly jokes.

He asks detailed questions, as these exhibits curiosity specifically with the girl. Even when he’s not present, his friends often pay attention to the girl’s moves and whatever she says. This is a sign that the guy has already talked about the girl too many times with his friends, arousing their interest in the girl too.

Shows himself off by helping others with carrying extra bags for other persons. Take note: this is done when he knows that the girl can see him. It is kind of hard to read all the signs, so here’s a summary for girls who do not have all the time to be keen with the signs:

1. Lifting of Eyebrows. A guy’s eyebrows rise and fall quickly upon seeing an interesting girl for the first time. (Hey girl, lift a brow if you’re interested too.)

2. Slight jaw drop. It may not be a nice sight, but the mouth slightly opens during first acquaintance.

3. Seeks attention. Guys have the tendency to be over acting just to stand out and get the girl’s attention.

4. The nose. Take a closer look girl; notice that as his face beams, the nostrils get big.

5. Strikes a pose. After gaining composure he budges into the typical machismo guy position with parted legs, one hand on the side and probably the other in a pocket.

6. He becomes self-conscious. This will be touching his forehead, pinching an ear, or rubbing the chin.

7. Fashion conscious. It starts with smoothing the shirt or pants along with the collar and the belt. On more formal occasions, it will be fixing the tie.

8. Secret friend. He would use the starting statement “one of my buddies want to know if you…” Oh, he’s just trying to play secret admirer dear.

9. Aside from the raised brows during first meeting, a guy exaggerates arching both eyebrows while saying something.

10. Lastly, the killer sock fiddling. Not familiar? Believe or not 99.9 per cent of psychological studies confirmed that if a guy adjusts his socks in front of a girl, he is so interested with her.

Please note that the effectiveness of these acts differ from person to person. That is because each individual may come from communities with a more traditional or contemporary views. Final word, just enjoy and see if someday, real love may be derived from first signs.

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Homosexual Dating - Truth and Connection - 0110

Homosexual dating has become much more widespread and accepted in Western culture, allowing both gays and lesbians the chance to reach out to one another beyond that of closed doors. Now there are many ways you can have a rewarding homosexual dating experience, so don't be afraid to get out there and explore all of the potential relationships you can create at a wonderful same-sex communities.

Homosexuality is a form of love that needs not to be judged or explained, because it is just another example of how when you love someone it doesn't matter what colour their skin is, how old they are, or even what sex they are. True love knows no boundaries, has no discriminations and only wishes to be shared with another who returns the same emotions.

Unfortunately, not everyone agrees with this idea of love, and due to this fact, many homosexuals, regardless if they are male or female, are made to feel alienated, which can often lead to feelings of depression or loneliness. There is no reason why you should let these feelings overcome you, or let other opinions of those you care about, such as family members or friends, negatively influence your life when it comes to finding love, relationships, and homosexual dating.

Homosexual dating is about finding someone who feels the same way you do, enjoys spending time with you, treats you with respect and makes you feel like an equal. It is about being apart of a relationship with mutual understanding, which has the potential to forge a strong connection between both you and your partner.

Like any dating experience, there will be certain setbacks and struggles that you may face during homosexual dating. This is only natural, simply because in order for you to connect with someone, it is important that you feel comfortable with them.

As a gay or lesbian, you should not feel that you need to grab any opportunity that comes your way. There is no harm in starting as friends and working slowly into the relationship to discover how much you have in common. As long as you are honest with your feelings, you should have no problem finding a partner.

Homosexual dating is how you can establish an amazing connection with someone who understands you, and loves you for who you are with no questions asked.

Even though you will meet some people who are destined to give you a hard time with your sexual preference, all you can do is trust your own judgments, be true to yourself, and give your love and time to those who deserve it.

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Having trouble writing your profile? - 0109

I hear you. It can be damn hard to write at all sometimes, let alone write about yourself, let alone write a personal profile about yourself for an internet dating website. It probably makes you feel a little self-conscious and silly, oui? Well, just think of it as one of the trials you need to complete to get to the holy grail (that's the perfect date, of course, not eternal life). You've got to slay a lot of dragons to get to the princess / kiss a lot of frogs to get to the prince / other silly phrases. And we are here to help.So. Here are’s top tips for writing a truly ace profile without breaking a sweat.

1. Make A List Of 'Stuff I Like'
If you have total writer's block and every sentence sounds dreadful, take the easy way out and make a list titled 'Stuff I Like'. I (as a professional copywriter, natch) recommend it as the easiest way to form a snapshot-in-words of unique, wonderful, sexy, dateable you. It's also quite a nice way of making yourself feel good as it reminds you what makes you happy. And hurrah for that.*
2. Answer One Of Our Random Questions:
Try answering one or two of our Random Questions (you might want to give the question, too, otherwise it may seem odd in the extreme) and wax a little lyrical in your answers. Think of these as springboards to help you be as creative and funny as you can be.
What my childhood nickname was and why.
What I did last Sunday.
The view from my desk.
My secret talents.
My favourite drink and why I love it so.
   My favourite bar and why I love it so.
The last time I laughed till hot tea came out my nose/I wet my pants.
And so on. Not happy with those questions? Make your own up, sweetcheeks! It's a free capital. (Remember to be quirky. Quirky is so hot right now.)
Want to actually write good old-fashioned sentences about yourself, in the traditional profile format? Ok, so now we come to the next few points. These focus on how to say what you say - and common profile-writing no-nos to watch for.
3. Don't Be Negative
I was going to suggest that you could make a list of 'Stuff I Hate', but actually that just doesn't work. And you know why? Because negativity is not sexy. (And although a good angry rant is always enjoyable, it's only funny when it's delivered in the right medium - and an online dating profile isn't that medium.) No one wants to date a negative person. Sentences like "I can't believe I'm internet dating..." don't test well. (Anyone reading your profile doesn't think you're weird for trying something as hip and happenin' as They're doing it too, remember?)

4. Avoid Clichιs Like The Plague
If you describe yourself as someone who likes "going out, going to the cinema, having a bit of a laugh, hanging out with my friends, quite easygoing but like to do new things" then frankly, you sound like everyone I've ever met. Including my mother. If you say "I like going out to small bars with big drinks and free postcards in the hall next to the toilets. I like sleeping in the cinema and making up the plot when I leave. I like laughing at my friends when they are drunk and helpless. I like having impromptu drinking competitions on inappropriate weeknights" then you sound like someone with a bit of pizzazz. Of course, pizzazz is subjective. But I digress. My point is: make the effort to stand out from the crowd by avoiding the same-ol'-same-ol' lines - it's the only way to get that special someone out there to bark aloud with laughter and try to cover it up with a cough before their co-workers notice, and then want to vigorously you morning, noon and night.
5. Don't Share Too Much
Your profile is designed to give a taste of who you are, what you like and why you're so damn special. It's not really the place to unzip your chest, pluck out your heart and soul and lay them naked and pulsating on the online dating operating table waiting for the next punter to attack them with a scalpel. Don't reveal too much about the horrors of love and dating, the capriciousness of women and the utter bastardry of men. Keep that stuff till later.
6. Be Yourself... But Better
Naturally, we're all online dating because traditional dating can kind of suck. So to maximize your online dating pulling power, you've got to write a really top-notch profile that shows you to be seriously hot property. That means being the best possible version of yourself: the well-dressed, funny, impressive, adorable, intelligent, flirtatious, warm, attractive, kissable, self-assured, memorable YOU. So be a flirt. Be coy. Be confident. Be unusual. Smirk, frown questioningly, arch your eyebrow and pout your lip - all through the medium of words, of course. (And whilst we're here, please don't use lots of exclamation marks. One or two is ok, but more than that makes you sound breathless and overexcited... and that's not cool. The Fonz wouldn't use lots of exclamation marks.)

Oh, and watch your spelling. For me. Really. We're all grown-ups. We can use
Well, I hope this helps. My last tip is to just force yourself to sit down and get the wretched thing over and done with. Thanks for reading. You've been a great crowd. I'm here all week. Try the veal. Dont forget to visit and to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...

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Growing Online Dating Relationships - 0108

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

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Good People, Fun and Romance Are Just A Click Away - 0107

One would think with all the dating and romance sites on the Internet, a person might ask "why start another singles' site and is there room for another on-line service catering to the singles' market"? Apparently the answer is yes. A new site called was launched recently. The mission of this service is to welcome singles of all races, ages (18+) and lifestyle. "We don't want to limit our service to just a certain niche. Our goal is to provide the best on-line place for singles from around the world" says Vivienne Neal, founder of

Vivienne Neal is no stranger to serving the singles' market. She has been bringing singles together since l986 through her international publication, which is distributed worldwide through snail mail. Because on-line dating is quickly replacing traditional singles' magazines and correspondence clubs, we can offer the same service on a wider scale instantly to the World Wide Web Community. wants to create a comfortable, fun and safe environment.

It does not matter if a person is heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, a young adult or a senior citizen; there is someone for everyone. Whether one is seeking pen pals, e-pals, a long distance relationship, a long or short-term relationship, a soul mate or a marriage minded partner, a person will find what she or he is looking for right here.  Our service is part of the world's largest networks of integrated on-line dating sites.  

Joining is free. The site is very easy to navigate. There are thousands of profiles to browse through. Anyone can see who's on-line, receive and reply to e-mails from other members and  if interested can signal other members without sending an Email. Up to 5 photos can be uploaded or the service will scan them at no cost.

There is never any pressure to become a premium member. The idea for using this service is to find people to form friendships and meaningful relationships first, and hopefully the love, romance or marriage will follow soon. Good  people, fun and romance are what we're all about. Please visit

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Going in for the Goodnight Kiss - 0106

Nobody wants to be rejected. So how do you know when it's alright to go in for the first goodnight kiss? Well that's a very difficult call to make since every woman/man is different. As a male, I will tackle this topic from the perspective of the man. Body language is a great way to tell if they're into you. Lets begin by looking at some of the things women do that show they're interested during the conversation:

Playing with and/or twirling hair (this is a tough one and can be confused with a simple case of OCD) Raising their shoulders straight up and leaning towards you

Hands are open with her palms facing up and outwards(Lots of giggling) You know she's what?

It's time to go in for a kiss. Since she's in to you, there will be many opportunities throughout the night to make your move. If you wait until the last minute and hesitate (at the door or end of the date), you pretty much lost your chance. So be on the safe side and try to do it about midway through the date. What if you're not sure? Just go for it! What's the worst that can happen...they say no? You have everything to gain and nothing to lose; you'll probably never see them again anyways.

Here are three different approaches to the goodnight kiss:

Silent: Making eye contact and then leaning in about 90% of the way

Polite: Asking them if it's alright to give them a kiss

Brave: Telling them that they have nice lips and asking if you could kiss them.

What happens if you chicken out? Nothing. Opportunities come and really comes down to the person and how they choose to handle the situation. Some people can care less, while others take it harder. But the worst is when you regret not going in for the kiss when you know you should have. It happens to us all...we meet someone we really hit it off with or maybe a friend we always had the biggest crush on but never the nerve to let them know. Before you know it they're gone; it's like clockwork, they either meet someone or move across the country. And in the end all you're left with are those two dreaded words, what if?

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Good Dating Conversation - 0105

There is nothing quite like it. You are out on a date, and suddenly both parties run out of things to say. The remainder of the date is a seemingly endless gauntlet of foiled conversation attempts and stretched out silences, and at the end of the night both of you know that you will probably never attempt a make up with that person.

Awkward silences can be a killer when it comes to dating; not only have you lost a prospective relationship, you have also wasted an evening. The great shame of it is, most dates have no reason at all for these awkward silences. There should always be something to talk about, and even the chronically shy can find some topic to keep the night proceeding smoothly.

The thing about a date is that it is no different than any other part of life. No matter what you are doing, there will be something to talk about. If you find yourself running out of conversation, then try to for an easy topic by focusing on the date itself- you might talk about the food or the scenery in a restaurant, your feelings on the movie you just saw. Once the conversation gets rolling, it will probably begin to stretch out into other areas and soon enough you will find that the evening is flying by.

A great way to measure the quality of the conversation is by the amount of laughter between you. Laughter indicates a high level of comfort and enjoyment, so if you are both laughing chances are that the date is going well.

There are several things worse than awkward silences, if truth be told. A person trying too hard to overcome the silence may wind up making a serious ass out of herself. Know the difference between an awkward silence and a comfortable or reflective one. A reflective silence, following a particularly good point or part of the conversation, can be an even better indicator of the positive outcomes of the date than even laughter is.

Never break a silence by starting to talk about how wonderful you are. Feel free to begin by talking about yourself, but be sure to include your date in the topic- ask what he does for a living, if he enjoys it, what the future plans and goals are. This advice should be tripled for men- in fact, it is mostly guys that need to watch the silences on a date. If a girl is talking, then she is probably having a good time and the date will go down as a positive experience.

The key to avoiding an awkward date is to focus on your current conversations instead of thinking about the next topics. Avoid backtracking and keep the conversation moving forward. Above all, make sure that if you haven’t heard your date say a word in a while, that you leave an opening in the conversation for her to respond. Good communication is the key to any relationship, short term or long, and it begins with good conversation.

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Can You Really Trust The Person You Are Dating Online? - 0104

Heather is a 42 year old American lady.Divorced with two children,she decided to try online dating to possibly get a new partner. She signed up with one of the popular dating sites  and set up a profile. The anonymity and security of online dating appealed to her and she hoped it would work out for her.

In a matter of days, she was contacted by a man who also claimed to be looking for a love relationship.The man was handsome,also divorced and in his mid-forties. He claimed to be an engineer living in the United States, but was sent on an assignment by his company to Nigeria. They began to chat and exchange mails, and soon began a relationship online.He sent flowers to her from time to time, sent poems everday, called her up twice a day.

Heather felt that she had finally found the man of her dreams. Surely,this was the perfect relationship that she had wanted since her divorce. Here was a man who was caring and who showed it. She readily agreed to his proposal when he called her over the phone and asked her to marry him. They began to make plans to get married as soon as he returned to the United States.

Heather felt all was going on well with their plans until he made a distress call.He had been involved in a road accident and had been hospitalized. Could she help out with some money to pay the bills? Well,she did help. A sequence of events followed afterwards. Weeks later, she discovered that the man she had fallen in love with was not the real person she had thought he was.She had just been taken by the newest form of online scams that is just showing up--the romance or dating scam.

She was heartbroken.She had lost thousands of dollars to this man.She was behind on her mortgage and was in debt to the bank. But painful as the experience was,it could not be compared to the emotional pain that she had to go through.

It would take many months before she would get over the whole  experience, which she described as a nightmare. Heather is not the only one that is a victim of this new form of scam.

Many thousands of people online are losing millions of dollars monthly to these scams. But due to the secretive nature of the internet, most people that have been scammed this way are either too embarassed or ashamed to talk about their experience. In a particular finding, 145 men and women reported that they lost over $1 million in two months in 2005. In that same finding, thousands of people refused to disclose any information about their losses.

The worst aspect of these scams has been the emotional pains the victims have had to go through.
Many of the victims I talked with reported that it took them many months before they could get back to their normal life.

A lady told me that she cried for many nights after she realized that she had been scammed. She had thought she had the ideal lover,and had become so emotionally attached to him. Realizing that it was all a lie was devastating to her. The fact that she had been in deep love with a fake person was what pained her the most.

This is the same experience as many of the victims I related with have had.The effects of the scams have had so much of a devastating effect on them all. Medical doctors, lawyers,paralegals and other professionals have been known to lose money to these scams just as housewives, students, factory workers and other low-income earners have. The scams are no respecter of status or race. Not even religious people have been spared from this growing menace.

Till this moment, thousands of people are out there trying to get over these scams. But even as those who have been scammed are trying to get on with their lives, many more thousands are being set up for a scam right now.

Online dating has come to stay with us all, and many people have found true love through this avenue. Online dating has produced many successful love stories. It is a medium that if properly used, with the right education, can be a means of bringing love into the lives of many.

However, it is apparent that it is also increasingly being used for the wrong purposes. Given the high success rate of the scams however, the best way to deal with them is to educate yourself about them.

You need to learn how to separate the wheat from the chaff. Knowing the methods that the scammers use will help you not to fall for their antics. You will be able to know what to do to protect yourself and still be able to date succesfully. The more educated you are, the more you can prevent the scams from happening to you.

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All About Online Free Dating - 0103

Online dating has recently generated a lot of interest both in the online and offline communities. This is all because of its phenomenal success in the stiff and competitive internet business niche. Online free dating offers an attractive alternative to the traditional way of meeting people. Online free dating web sites offer real time chat, emailing, profiling, and telephone access dependant on the clients’ choices. Online free dating has made dating more convenient and quick. Since all you need to do is get a computer and internet connection then you are on your way to meeting people from different countries and from all walks of life.

Dating through cyberspace has transformed the dating scene. For those who are not sure that online dating is the way to go for them, online free dating is the best way to go. Online free dating lets you try online dating without any charges. You will get a feel of how things are in online dating. Online free dating enables you to try the online dating site before making a financial commitment.

There are innumerable advantages in using online free dating site on the Internet. First is the convenience. Online free dating web site offers the world of dating at your fingertips. The freedom of online free dating web site is that you can post a profile, browse members of a website and often receive emails at absolutely no cost.

You only pay the online free dating web site when you want to write back to someone or initiate first contact. This means you never have to join an online free dating web site that doesn’t meet your own standards.

Free online dating sites usually offer a number of services but the following are the five most common:

1) Browsing the database of singles

Depending on the online dating site, the free online dating service allows you to enter common search criteria such as age, geography, and others and open sites of potential matches.

2) Submitting photographs

Most free online dating service allows you to submit one or more photos for to be displayed to potential matches.

3) Writing a profile

Most free online dating service help you write the profile by asking key questions such as age, height, gender, location, hobbies, and interests. Some online free dating sites ask more detailed questions.

4) Completing an assessment

Most online free dating sites have their own unique or trademarked name for assessment.

5) Communicating with prospects

Some online free dating sites will let you instant message or post on a forum with your fellow daters.

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All lonely hearts there ; Try your luck in - 0102

Hi all. This is Kristine.

Last month I met my elder sister Stephani when I went on a vacation to my parents’ home. It was really nice to find my sister coming the same time I was. Though we were quite close but because of our hectic work schedule we were not getting time to meet each other. I observed some changes in Stephani from the last time we met. She was looking very content and her face was glowing with happiness. While just chatting after dinner, upon my asking her Stephani told me that she found some one very special while trying her luck in free dating site.

I knew my sister was fed up with getting blind dates and was looking for something new as well as innovative and serious. She came to know about from a friend and wanted to give it a try. After trying for a few days she received a mail from Bob and after having a look at his profile she was convinced that it matched up to her interest level. When she showed me Bob’s picture; even I agreed that she found a much better deal. He looks so smart and good looking. He works as a software developer. They are going strong for quite some time.

Frankly speaking I had not much idea about But after I came to know about this from my sister, my curiosity level was increased. I was single from quite some time. So when my sister insisted I should also try on free dating site, I became a member of this Free Dating site.  The best thing what I like most about this Free Dating site is it doesn’t cost a single penny to become a member.

 It’s Free, isn’t it cool! Last week while browsing thorough the profiles, I came across the profile of this very handsome dude. I have already sent him email and I just hope he shows interest on my profile and replies me back. Who knows we might end up going on dates. My fingers are crossed. Just logging onto a right dating site like and can get you access to millions of prospects to go through. So wish me luck!

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African Dating - Pride and Ambition - 0101

It is no secret that African culture is known for its pride. Most Africans do not have a problem standing up for their beliefs and causes, and are often ambitious when it comes to obtaining specific goals. That being the case, if you are of African descent and are seeking a relationship with someone of your ethnic background, you probably already have an idea of the type of man or woman you are looking for.

When it comes to finding the African man or woman of your dreams, there are many options awaiting you if you hook up with the right community. You can find the ideal connection you are aspiring for, by getting to know others who share your same ambitions and dreams.  Of course, like seeking any relationship, there are certain character qualities you will want to avoid such as: Money Suckers avoid a relationship with someone who is only interested in how much money you make. Dramatics someone who takes things to the extreme could really put your patience to the test. Desperation If your date is clingy, this is a good sign that he or she could have self-esteem issues or are desperate for reasons you may not want to know.

Shady If for any reason you suspect that your date has something to hide, or has been caught telling you a half-truth or a lie, it's time to move on. Once a liar, always a liar.
Control Freak It's true that relationships are about giving... but if you have to give up all of your free time or interests to appease your date, it's time to take back control and walk away. Now that you have an idea of what to avoid when dating, here are some of the things to look for:

Beauty is Only Skin Deep - Of course appearance is an important part of dating, but remember that it isn't the only aspect that should attract you.

Look for someone who's intelligent; someone with personality.
Common Sense This is an attribute that goes a long way, and is a good indication that your date is knowledgeable, and can think on their own two feet.
Self-Respect Any date that has self-respect, will take pride in their own ambitions, and should also respect yours.

There is no reason why you should feel pressured into perusing a relationship with someone who does not interest you, or who is looking for different goals. You need to think about what you want, and give it all you've got. And you can be sure, if it is meant to be, love will find a way to reach your heart. Dont forget to visit and to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...

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Advices To The Gallant Man When Meeting Her Parents - 0100

Is your valor put to the test, when facing (her) Mom and Dad? Is meet-the-parents-day, a dreaded event in the near future? Do you enjoy each other’s company that Mom’s opinion or Dad’s plan is already part of the daily conversation? If things are going good, then you should expect that you would meet her parents sooner or later.

But don’t dread the day, and instead welcome it with open arms. For here are sound advices for you, the gallant man, when the day comes to meet her parents.

First of all, not all parents are alike; so don’t assume that they’ll be like Mom and Pop. But, hopefully like her, you would want to impress, respect and not offend your own parents, wouldn’t you? Ask your girlfriend about her family. It would be useful to know any history on her father or mother’s side, her siblings, their work background and major health issues.

It would be wise to find out about the parents’ politics, what kind of sense of humor they have, cultural or entertainment preference, if any. Asking these key questions will also show your girlfriend that you’re interested in knowing all about her family and that you attach a lot of importance in meeting her parents.

A careless remark about the latest bloopers by the country’s president may not sit well with her parents if they are staunch republicans from a red state.

There are countless of other ways you can go wrong with her parents if you don’t do your homework. The objective is to leave a good impression on her father and mother after the first meeting.  Now, you would think that of the two, the father should be the primary focus. But, no; it is best to get your girlfriend’s mother on your side first.

Think about it, she’s actually the one hosting the dinner in the house, isn’t she? Moreover, most mothers would partially judge you according to how happy their daughter looks being with you. When you’re hitting a rough spot in your relationship, your girlfriend would most likely run to her mother. In these times of trouble, her mother might become instrumental in bringing you back together again.

Fathers will generally have a harder time accepting you. Rightly so, because he was the main man in your girlfriend’s life.

Now, it will obviously appear to her father that you are taking over that role. In some instances, the father might resent that. In most cases, they will size you up to see if you are really fit to take care of their daughter. So, come to think of it, fathers have a more natural obstacle to get close to you. But this will happen in time, especially if you’re careful in your first meeting.

Now what do you really do during the actual meeting? If it’s a dinner at their house, always bring a gift.

You can give them a floral arrangement. Depending on their tastes, traditional items like a bottle of wine or a box of sweets also work. When you get into a conversation with them, show interest in their family life. Look for common interests, hobbies and expound on them. Politely ask for their opinion and listen. It’s easy to talk about sports, pets and their line of work. Other good topics are your job, your family, movies, and current events. It would be wise to steer the conversation away from jokes, politics, personal matters, religion and money matters.

Flatter your girlfriend’s mother on her cooking, clothes or the home interiors. Compliment her cooking by finishing your plate. After dinner, offer to help clear the table of wash the dishes.

Eventually, your girlfriend’s parents will start to ask you some direct questions. You won’t panic if you’re prepared for this. Relax, look them in the eye and answer as nicely as you can. Try to think about their reason for asking the question and relate to this when answering the parents.

Remember, in the first meeting, be yourself and make sure to always observe good manners. Show respect to your girlfriend and her parents.

Your girlfriend has probably told all of them about you and how great you are. So come prepared for the meeting and prove to her parents that you deserve to be with their daughter. Dont forget to visit and to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...

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